There are two ways gift giving during a wedding can go. This can either be the give away trinkets that newly weds give the attendees or this may be the gift an attendee can give the couple. The matter can either be depending on budget or practicality.
For the attendees finding the perfect gift can be tricky. While a registry may be present, there is still the dilemma of surplus. Picking newlywed romantic gifts needs a good amount of thought. If you really consider what the couple wants, practical would always outweigh romantic. But in perspective an extra 500 bucks for the honeymoon does sound pretty romantic already.
Cutting to the chase, these people are bound to receive many presents on such a special day. If you give something remotely useless, it may be endangered of being thrown in the bin, after moving from one house to another to start a family. First off, although it does seem quite unlikely, avoid, or never just ever give them pets.
They already have a lot to spend on the event and since they are tying the knot, they probably are planning to have kids. There would be no need for more cute creatures in one household nor do they need the financial obligation. If the couple already has pets, then it would be better to have a well designed basket of treats and toys that their current pets want.
Monogrammed objects are not as practical as you may like to think, romantic maybe. Only get this if the bride and groom personally asked you to. If you are not the closest to them, it may be best to leave the embroidered towels and items alone, lest you want to risk putting in the wrong letters or names.
As thoughtful and well meaning a self help book may sound, think against it. Negative implications may be attached to the gesture. This can be seen as telling the couple that they are inadequate and ill prepared for what they are getting into. Newly weds may not take this lightly and end up severing their relations with you.
Furniture and home decor, as practical as they are may not be a good choice either. Sorry to break it to you, but to pick the right piece of furniture a good amount of thinking and consideration needs to be done. The decision making should be done by newly married couple since they are the ones that would know best what they need. But if they state exactly what they want in the registry then why not.
Re gifting is just so much rudeness, that if you do this it just shows that the matter was not given enough thought. That in itself should already go without saying. You may also think that it would be a good idea to book them a special activity on their honeymoon venue or somewhere supposedly fun. These honeymooners are already likely to have something planned out for their days off.
While it is a big issue for those who just got married to ask for cash, that may be exactly what they need. The point of wedding gifts is to help them get started with a life together. If what you give them is not particularly useful then it would just take up space. As a friend and attendee, you may not be able to give them what is stated in their registry so go with a gift card or cash.
For the attendees finding the perfect gift can be tricky. While a registry may be present, there is still the dilemma of surplus. Picking newlywed romantic gifts needs a good amount of thought. If you really consider what the couple wants, practical would always outweigh romantic. But in perspective an extra 500 bucks for the honeymoon does sound pretty romantic already.
Cutting to the chase, these people are bound to receive many presents on such a special day. If you give something remotely useless, it may be endangered of being thrown in the bin, after moving from one house to another to start a family. First off, although it does seem quite unlikely, avoid, or never just ever give them pets.
They already have a lot to spend on the event and since they are tying the knot, they probably are planning to have kids. There would be no need for more cute creatures in one household nor do they need the financial obligation. If the couple already has pets, then it would be better to have a well designed basket of treats and toys that their current pets want.
Monogrammed objects are not as practical as you may like to think, romantic maybe. Only get this if the bride and groom personally asked you to. If you are not the closest to them, it may be best to leave the embroidered towels and items alone, lest you want to risk putting in the wrong letters or names.
As thoughtful and well meaning a self help book may sound, think against it. Negative implications may be attached to the gesture. This can be seen as telling the couple that they are inadequate and ill prepared for what they are getting into. Newly weds may not take this lightly and end up severing their relations with you.
Furniture and home decor, as practical as they are may not be a good choice either. Sorry to break it to you, but to pick the right piece of furniture a good amount of thinking and consideration needs to be done. The decision making should be done by newly married couple since they are the ones that would know best what they need. But if they state exactly what they want in the registry then why not.
Re gifting is just so much rudeness, that if you do this it just shows that the matter was not given enough thought. That in itself should already go without saying. You may also think that it would be a good idea to book them a special activity on their honeymoon venue or somewhere supposedly fun. These honeymooners are already likely to have something planned out for their days off.
While it is a big issue for those who just got married to ask for cash, that may be exactly what they need. The point of wedding gifts is to help them get started with a life together. If what you give them is not particularly useful then it would just take up space. As a friend and attendee, you may not be able to give them what is stated in their registry so go with a gift card or cash.
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