Sensible questions to ask a girl do not come easily to the average male mind. On the tip of his tongue will be inquiries like, 'Do I impress you?' and 'Will you have sex with me?'. Neither of those are permissible. They should be buried deep in the guilt section of your brain and left there.
Turning back to the drawing board, one has to consider overall strategy and the context in which inquiries will proceed. Tact, cultivation, taste and manners all dictate unwelcome delays. As when one is stuck in a traffic jam or on a train that will not move the best strategy is to try and make the most of the delay.
On a train one can take out a book or plug in earphones. In a relationship a delay has to be dealt with circumstantially. One can take cues from the environment. The weather has been somewhat overdone in English culture but if the person in question has a farm girl look about her one could try inquiring what her thoughts are on the surrounding weather and how it may strike her.
As usual, weather is a topic that can lead to interesting information about likes, dislikes, family, social situation and pet themes. Circuitously and very cautiously, you could approach the vital issue of her phone number.
A slim young woman, dressed in sophisticated clothes and bent over a book may not rise to the weather bait. Instead she you might fix you with a disdainful look and turn back to her reading. If you really cannot take the hint and musts persist try music, art or literature. These topics are all available at different levels, from the idiotic to the intelligent and the quality of your inquiry will probably reveal where you fit in. If she is on the same level she may close her book.
If you do not turn out to have similar tastes and interests do not be daunted. Almost every human being likes to be helpful when politely approached. Asking for advice or information can be among the most profitable questions to ask a girl.
Turning back to the drawing board, one has to consider overall strategy and the context in which inquiries will proceed. Tact, cultivation, taste and manners all dictate unwelcome delays. As when one is stuck in a traffic jam or on a train that will not move the best strategy is to try and make the most of the delay.
On a train one can take out a book or plug in earphones. In a relationship a delay has to be dealt with circumstantially. One can take cues from the environment. The weather has been somewhat overdone in English culture but if the person in question has a farm girl look about her one could try inquiring what her thoughts are on the surrounding weather and how it may strike her.
As usual, weather is a topic that can lead to interesting information about likes, dislikes, family, social situation and pet themes. Circuitously and very cautiously, you could approach the vital issue of her phone number.
A slim young woman, dressed in sophisticated clothes and bent over a book may not rise to the weather bait. Instead she you might fix you with a disdainful look and turn back to her reading. If you really cannot take the hint and musts persist try music, art or literature. These topics are all available at different levels, from the idiotic to the intelligent and the quality of your inquiry will probably reveal where you fit in. If she is on the same level she may close her book.
If you do not turn out to have similar tastes and interests do not be daunted. Almost every human being likes to be helpful when politely approached. Asking for advice or information can be among the most profitable questions to ask a girl.
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